Can We Stop Talking About ‘Trying’ And Talk About Fucking?
Last week a friend told me a story about a family dinner, where everyone very happily and comfortably chatted about the details of her…
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Finding Room for the “I” in LGBTIQ
With last month’s announcement that gay marriage would now be legal across the United States, news coverage has been flooded with support of the…
Real Life Inside Australian Brothels
I made my first foray into Sydney’s brothels over three years ago. Each brothel had its own individual character depending on the workers, the…
You Should Masturbate, But Not to Celebrity Phone Photos
Since I was a teenager I’ve had it pointed out by men of all ages that I have nice breasts. I’m not nude every…
The Fappening: Why Do Only Some Women Deserve Our Sympathy?
It’s been two weeks since “the Fappening” and in that time the debate around our attitude towards everything from privacy, to celebrity, to women’s…
Realistic Sex Fantasies
I’m a realist. I can’t help it. In fact I treasure it. I’m proud of the way I look at a beautiful sunset and…
Quarter Age: Put It Away To Get Laid
Face-to face human interaction isn’t a complex idea. But it’s no secret that our lives have been invaded by a sea of pods and…
Blog Of The Week: Kaapstad Kinsey
Laura Windvogel is a South African woman who likes to talk about sex. In most countries that makes for a good dinner companion, but…